很多时候，我们因为情感的付出得不...

很多时候，我们因为情感的付出得不到预期的回报，而感觉自己受伤了。其实，不是因为多付出才会受伤，而是期待回报的心让自己受伤。所谓的感情，只是一场交换，一场“我执”与“我执”的较量，所以总是在伤害别人或被人伤害。痛苦的根源不是感情，而是我执，只有逐步放下我执，才能感受到真正的快乐。 Many times, we felt being hurt because our feelings didn't receive the returns we expected. As a matter of fact, we are hurt not from all the efforts we have made, but from our expectations on return. The so-called feelings is only a kind of exchange, a battle between "self-attachments", therefore we constantly hurt others or being hurt by others. The root-cause for all the pains and sufferings are not feeling itself, but the self-attachment. Only when we gradually lay down the self-attachment, we will experience the real joy.